Schools are officially in full swing and kids are getting back into their schedules and of course doing lots of homework. I graduated from both high school and college, attended both public and private schools and attended 3 different colleges in different states during my college years, so I’ve seen some of what the educational world has to offer. I’ve had some great teachers, I’ve had some teachers who had great personalities even if I don’t remember learning anything, I’ve had a ton of forgettable teachers, and I’ve had teachers who were terrible in more ways than one.
I’ve also met lots of of people having worked in schools and with kids outside of my own educational experience, plus owning my own business has introduced me to many people. I know people from all around the world, and while their corners of the world may be a little different than mine, there are things that are unfortunately the same throughout the world that we need to pay attention to so that we can make the world a better place for the next generation.
School was created as a way to make sure that everyone learns certain things, like reading, writing and math. We’re all exposed to some science, history and physical education as well, but those are less memorable for many of us. Today I want to take just a couple minutes to talk about something that we don’t really like to admit: school failures. I’ve already spoken to one of those negatives: teachers who stink. Some teachers just don’t care about the kids, they’re just in it for the paycheck. They share the same info every year and don’t take the time to make it come to life for new students, or consider the interests of their new students to add additional aspects to the classes. It’s unfortunate because at some point in time they probably were passionate and did bring life to what they teach, they just don’t anymore. As a parent there’s not a lot you can do other than encourage your kid to do the best they can and just get through it. Sure, you can bring it up to the school board, but that doesn’t always work out in your favor and may do more harm than good.
Issue number two is that schools don’t always teach what people really need to know. Because of the fact that I work with a wide variety of businesses some of my education that may not apply to others has been practically helpful, but much of it has not been, especially with the availability of Google and answers being a couple of clicks away. There are many other skills that I wish had been taught but weren’t. As a parent the best thing you can do is help teach some of those things at home and get kids involved in activities and learning experiences that are available extracurricularally.
Finally is an issue that we’ll talk about in greater depth in the coming weeks: bullying. Relationships are the building blocks of our world. If we aren’t able to create relationships of all kinds it’s much harder to do our jobs and live our lives. There will always be some who are just bad people, but I believe most people don’t grow up wanting to be bad, they want to stand out or finally find acceptance. If it’s your kid doing the bullying make sure to put an immediate stop to it and teach them better ways of interacting with others. If they’re the target of a bully, encourage them to stand up for themselves and try to help the bully see the error of their ways, but if they don’t and adults aren’t able to intervene and turn the behaviors around, it’s time for new friends and acquaintances.
What lessons about school have you learned?