I’ve mentioned before that I’m not a huge fan of how elections are run these days, right? I wish we would hear more about how the world could improve if a certain candidate is picked instead of all of the bashing and hatred that goes on. I can’t stand that people are more interested in using the dirt in someone’s past against them instead of making themselves look good by doing the right things and being a contributory person. Yes, everyone has flaws and mistakes in their past, and everyone has opinions that someone else might not agree with. In this election for Trump there have been some recordings released that people are up in arms over, and for Clinton there has been a lot of talk around her email practices.
When it comes to looking at another person or company, if we’re considering getting to know them better, considering hiring them for something, checking them out for someone else, or just hear something interesting about them and want to know more, typically we’ll look for three things: what they’re doing presently (current/the past 12 months), what they’ve done in the recent past (up to 5 years ago), and what they’ve done in the distant past (more than 5 years ago). We typically weigh the present stuff as the most important, but sometimes there are things in the distant past that we place large importance on.
For some people or businesses I believe this does them a huge disservice. It’s wrong to assume that someone (person or business) hasn’t changed since that/those negative event(s) in the distant past. To assume that what someone said, believed, did or practiced 10+ years ago is still how they 100% feel and live their lives/run their businesses is a gross oversight. Yes, there are some people who don’t change a whole lot, but each and every one of us changes! Whether it’s just appearance as we age, or if we did things as a young one that we weren’t so proud of, things have changed. To assume that a business that was known for a serious failure in the 80’s is still equally screwed up today, or a person that committed murder 30 years ago doesn’t regret that decision does them a disservice.
Before stringing someone (individual or business) up for something they did in the distant past, take a look at what they’re doing in the present. Have they shown that they’ve changed? Do they say that they’re doing things different? Have they just become older and wiser? Don’t write the last chapter of a book before the rest of the chapters have been written. Some people and businesses may not change, but don’t lump everyone into that category before considering all things. You wouldn’t want to be treated as such, so do everyone else the courtesy of not treating them that way either.