Having Fun with the Family

This week I’ve been thinking about being yourself, and one of the places we should be able to be ourselves is with our families.  So today I thought we’d take a look at 3 things that should happen as a family.  I realize that not every family situation is ideal, and that you may only have fun with the family you live with and not your extended family, or only with the people you call family but not your blood-family.  This post isn’t about dealing with those types of family complications, instead we’re thinking about this month’s theme: fun!

Family should have fun together.  Family should be a place where we can laugh, joke, play, and generally enjoy life. Family should be there for each other through thick and thin, but more than anything family should come together to make great memories.  My family wasn’t really the annual-summer-BBQ-everyone-comes-over type, but the few times I did see extended family over the years were special times.  Of course now we’re able to connect virtually in many ways that weren’t available years ago, but those in person get togethers are something special that can’t be replicated online.  After all, no one makes that special favorite food dish like that one family member, or has the best stories like that one family member, or always brings special gifts like that other family member.

Family should be able to be silly together.  You’ve seen those videos where the mom or dad is making faces at the baby and talking in a really funny voice and you think that would never be you, only when you have your kids you’re doing the exact same thing with very little or no shame?  That’s what family should be!  We should be able to be silly and goofy, and yes there will be laughter, but you’ll all be laughing together, not at each other.

Family should be the place you’re safe to be yourself.  When you share news with family yes, they may have a surprise reaction initially, but when it comes down to it, they should support you with whatever decisions you make in your life and whomever you are (unless of course you’re planning to hurt yourself, then they should guide you into getting help). But there shouldn’t be any judgment if you want purple hair or a tattoo or work a farm for a job or or like techno music or adopt a child even if you’re not married or with a partner.

As we gear up for Memorial Day weekend here in the US and the start of summer, I encourage you to make time for fun in your family, especially if you’ve been working through heartache recently.  What fun do you have with your family?

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