Something I’ve been thinking about as we approach Valentine’s Day as well as in my work with businesses and individual clients, is the importance of having a team behind and around you. We’ve been taking a look at some keys to success over the past few weeks and I think that the idea of having a team around you is something we sometimes take for granted. We take for granted that we can get a plumber out within 24 hours or sooner when we’ve got a leak, we take for granted that someone designed the refrigerator that we use to keep food cool and fresh, we take for granted that someone’s always behind the scenes taking all the calls that come in to the police stations around the country (and the world), we take for granted that someone’s making sure the technology is functioning so that we can get to our favorite websites and search engines at a moment’s notice.
But we also sometimes take for granted the people who are a lot closer to us. We just expect our employees to show up each day, we expect that our kids will go to school most days, and we expect that our partner will do the things around the house that they always do. When someone gets sick or something happens it becomes very apparent exactly how strong and capable your team and support system is.
One of the greatest challenges and opportunities for businesses and communities is to support the people who rely on them, the people who are part of them. The online reviews tell the stories of the good, bad and ugly experiences we have with businesses and their employees. The relationships we choose to keep and people we regularly interact with say a lot about those people and the type of person they are. Rather than trying to be everything for everyone, why not turn to those people that are around you literally, or are accessible through the gift of the internet? Why put yourself through the stress and pressure of trying to be everything and do everything?
We’re not alone in this life and it’s time that we stop living that way. It’s not dependency or a revelation of weakness to admit that you need help and other people around you. It actually makes you smarter and more likely to succeed when you have a team of people you can rely on around you. Today make sure to recognize the people who help you get through your day, and if you look around and realize you don’t have that team and network, start reaching out. Who makes your life better because they’re in it?