Today is one of the last “titled” holiday shopping/spending days of the year, today is Giving Tuesday. The numbers so far are saying that it’s been a great past week for stores and lots of people were shopping both in store and online. I have hopes that the non-profits will get a good fraction of what was spent in stores over the past week, having seen quite a few emails already indicating organizations have match-donations in place, and last year having raised over 1 billion. But I think we all need a reminder from time to time though that this month is about more than finishing another calendar year and taking advantage of great deals, and take time to not just remember but appreciate and apply the sentiments behind Christmas (both secular and religious) and Hanukkah and Kwanzaa.
For people around the globe this month is supposed to be something special, a reminder that there is still good in the world, that we haven’t forgotten our fellow mankind, that peace can be a reality, that the light can beat the darkness, that maybe we can finally have some victories over the things that hold us back. Over the past week I’ve been a bit surprised and pleased by something, and I wanted to share it with you today, as we begin this holiday season.
On Wednesday before the Thanksgiving holiday I made a phone call to a government office and spoke with a very pleasant lady who was also very helpful at the end of the day no less. On Thursday I met some extended family for the first time and we had a fantastic time. On Friday while shopping all of the employees I encountered were not only helpful but had a very positive attitude. Also while shopping the majority of people I encountered were not only polite but also relaxed and patient, and even some who had holiday cheer.
Why share all this? Because for the first time in a long time, I have hope that maybe we’re making a difference in the world and people are getting the message that it really doesn’t pay to be a Scrooge or a Grinch, and that it’s much better to live your life with consideration and care for others, working together to make the world a better place. Some of the interactions I had with people this past week were a great reminder that it really doesn’t take much to make life a little easier, just a smile, kind word, willingness to help and/or positive attitude.
So as we head into this holiday season, I would encourage you to be of holiday cheer; to embody the things we’re taught in the Kwanzaa, Hanukkah, and both Christmas stories; and to let this be the most wonderful time of the year.