I’ve been receiving lots of emails about the violent deaths of black men and women around the US over the past few months and especially these past few days, and you probably have too. I’ve shared some thoughts on violence before, but to sum up I believe it’s sometimes necessary, but only for reasons of showing your strength or defending those who are weaker and in trouble. I don’t believe violence should be the answer to fear, differences, disagreements or the way to gain power. We each have our differences and our similarities. Just because we’re different in one way or another, it doesn’t make it right to treat anyone as less than a human with rights. We all have our biases and beliefs, but if we really believe we’re meant to live in a global, connected world, we have to start working together at some point in time.
So today I wanted to share with you a few of the comments I have heard that stood out to me, I may reflect in depth on some of them on the Life and Spirituality blog over the coming days and weeks as well.
“We[‘ve] talked about the terror some of us feel in our own homes. Scared of feeling rejected, ignored, dismissed, or unheard by the people who matter most, we reactively retreat to passivity and self-protection. This is not the path to peace in our own homes, nor in our own hearts…Ultimately, learn to represent your fullest self to the fullest. That way you give yourself, and the ones who matter most, the best chance at the relationships we all crave.” Hal Runkel
“Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.” Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
“… the attack is a reminder that no life will be safe and truly valued until we also confront the broader American culture of violence.” Kai Wright
“There is a deep wound in this nation and we must re-double our commitment to be a part of healing it — and it must be done nonviolently. The only way we can truly generate healing is to take the skills and values of peacebuilding deep into our communities.” Matthew Albracht
“Everybody’s got to reach deep down and find some empathy. If you cried for the brother who bled out next to his fiancee, but you didn’t cry this morning for those police officers, it’s time to do a heart check. If you cried for those police officers, but you have a hard time taking seriously all these videos that are coming out about African Americans dying, it’s time to do a heart check. Because we are either going to come together or come apart. There’s enough pain on both sides that there should be some empathy starting to kick in.’ Van Jones
“You need the courage to push yourself beyond your own fears. You need to embrace your fears in order to make your life everything it was meant to be.” Chris Howard
The world you grew up in is much different than it was for your parents, and the world your kids and their kids grow up in will be much different than the world you grew up in. I want a world that will be a place to grow, thrive and blossom, and that’s not possible if the threat of violence remains so high. What world do you want to create for your future generations?