I saw in the news that the Emperor of Japan has decided to step down. He’s 85 and has had some health issues in recent years, and has decided that it’s in the best interest of the country to pass on the leadership to his son. Here in the US we elect someone new every 4-8 years typically so we don’t experience anything like this type of life-long leadership, but Great Britain does, at least as of now, and the Catholic Church has historically had life-long leadership but the current pope has indicated he doesn’t want to be pope for the rest of his days. All of this has gotten me thinking about quitting.
The word ‘quit’ is an interesting one. It can be defined as “stop, cease, discontinue, depart, leave, give up, or relinquish.” I think these definitions are interesting because we always see quitting as a really bad thing. But these words don’t necessarily indicate any type of failure, like we typically think of when we talk about quitting. Sometimes quitting is the best decision you can make.
Quitting isn’t necessarily about accepting defeat or failing at something, although sometimes that is the case, other times it’s about getting out while the getting is good, or thinking about win-win-wins for everyone, or knowing that you’ve done the very best job that you could do and now you need to pass it of to someone else or do something different going forward.
Sometimes it’s easy to say that you quit, but often it does take courage and some serious consideration to make sure that you’re really making the best decision for yourself and those that matter most to you. Those in positions of power have extra responsibility to make sure they’re doing what’s best for everyone, but the fact is we all do as well. The way you live affects others in various ways from the very obvious and significant to the negligible, but the fact remains that we each do have responsibility for how we live, and therefore knowing when to quit.
Change isn’t the enemy, in fact more often than not it’s not changing that’s the enemy. This week I encourage you to consider if it’s time for a change, time to quit something so you can move onto something bigger and better.